Nocturnal Enuresis (Bedwetting): What Parents Need to Know

Understanding Bedwetting

What is it? Involuntary urination during sleep in children over age 5. Very common - affects 15% of 5-year-olds and usually resolves on its own.

Common Causes:

  • Small bladder capacity - can't hold all urine made at night
  • Deep sleep patterns - child doesn't wake when bladder is full
  • Genetic/family history - runs in families
  • Medical conditions - constipation, UTI, diabetes, sleep apnea

Common Signs to Monitor

✅ Normal/Expected:

  • Bedwetting with daytime dryness
  • Child sleeps deeply and is hard to wake
  • Family history of bedwetting
  • Gradual improvement over time

⚠️ Watch For:

  • New bedwetting in previously dry child
  • Daytime accidents starting
  • Pain or burning with urination
  • Excessive thirst or drinking
  • Constipation or hard stools

How to Treat at Home 

✅ Basic Strategies:

  • Remind child to get up at night to urinate
  • Use night lights in bathroom or portable potty nearby
  • Wake child when you go to bed (child walks to bathroom alone)
  • Use waterproof mattress covers
  • Track dry nights with sticker charts

✅ Age-Specific Approaches:

  • Age 6+: Teach bedtime routine - lie down, pretend bladder is full, practice getting up
  • Age 8+: Consider bedwetting alarm (highest success rate)
  • All ages: Reduce fluids 1-2 hours before bed

❌ What NOT to Do:

  • Don't punish or shame
  • Don't restrict fluids during the day
  • Don't wake multiple times per night

When to Contact Poppins 

📱 Contact us if:

  • No improvement after 3 months of consistent strategies
  • Child becomes very distressed or embarrassed
  • Questions about bedwetting alarms or approach
  • Family stress from bedwetting affecting sleep

When to Visit Your Pediatrician 

🩺 Go to an in-person appointment when:

  • Pain or burning when urinating
  • Daytime wetting starts occurring
  • Excessive thirst or urination during day
  • Constipation not improving
  • New bedwetting in previously dry child

When to Go to the ER

🚨 Seek immediate emergency care if your child is: 

  • Showing signs of UTI with fever and severe pain
  • Unable to urinate or severe abdominal pain
  • Showing signs of diabetes (extreme thirst, frequent urination, weight loss)

We'll check in with you in 1-2 weeks to assess progress. If your gut tells you something is wrong, don't hesitate to reach out.

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